Timing and Destiny

A lot of people finds comfort in the thought that what's meant to be, will be. Hardcore believers would even say that we have no say to what has been written because it is meant to happen. It feels good to be not responsible for life and it probably is best when all becomes shitty and wrong. It is safe and convenient especially when things are not going our way and we are just tired of trying to make amends. It's all a lie. Destiny is a misused and misinterpreted word people has been using as excuse for wrong decisions. It is something we could blame when we are too late to turn back and be in good terms with life. It's all fake and wrong because of people's stupidity and greed to have everything.

　

Maybe it is just all about timing. Regardless what is destined, it will only be a truth when the time is right and when a person decides that the time is right. If someone is not yet ready to get married, even when the perfect person to be married with is right in front of him, he still won't marry. Because the timing is not right. When he finds the right timing for himself to be married, and that perfect person has already passed by and is replaced by someone less perfect but nonetheless good, then destiny's call is for the person to marry the "less perfect but nonetheless good" person. Because he decided to make that moment his perfect timing. And nobody else but himself decided that. It was not a choice of imaginary fate, it is all a person's freewill and stuff.

　

Destiny always does its thing but a person's ability to recognize the right time for something could totally change the course of life. That exact moment when you decides that life is perfect will make everything perfect. You will ignore the wrong things around you because it is the right timing to do so. When you decides it is the perfect timing, you decides to take over your destiny.

Mmmm, mmmm
Say good-bye to not knowing when
The truth in my whole life began
Say good-bye to not knowing how to cry
You taught me that

And I'll remember the love that you gave me
Now that I'm standing on my own
I'll remember the way that you changed me
I'll remember

Inside I was a child
That could not mend a broken wing
Outside I looked for a way
To teach my heart to sing

I learned to let go of the illusion that we can possess
I learned to let go, I travel in stillness
And I'll remember happiness
I'll remember (I'll remember)

I'll remember..

I'll remember..

No I've never been afraid to cry
Now I finally have a reason why
I'll remember (I'll remember)

-Madonna