It cannot be unbroken but it can be reshaped to something more beautiful and precious. The memories of the pain will remain part of the past, but will not always be a person's present truth. A broken heart can become something new. A person can change or create his present truth. It's like another chance to start over. Being broken is breathtaking in its unique way. When you have experienced heartbreak, life becomes more meaningful and simple joys create greater impact to you. You won't appreciate happiness as much when you don't even know what the opposite emotion is like. You might have heard stories from others, you might have seen it in movies or books. But a theoretical view is nothing compared to a firsthand feel. It is always better impression when you know it yourself, not just based on what others told you about it. Heartbreak is best learned when experienced, whether it ended in a good or bad way. What matters are the takeaways anyway, the lessons, not just the heartbreak itself. An elder can only tell you as much on how you should live life despite the pain and and all the bull, that it should be to the fullest. Don't just listen. Listen, but also aim to create your greatness out of your own heartbreaks. I'm sure you have one you'd been brooding about. Treasure what has been broken, you can never tell what can come out of thinking one positive something out of all the obvious negatives. It's exhilarating.
Heart heart. Saranghye!
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